Tips For Bringing Your New Dog Home
The Rule of 3: Helping Your New Dog Adjust
Bringing a new dog home is exciting, but adjusting takes time! On average, it takes:
3 Days to decompress
3 Weeks to settle into a routine
3 Months to fully feel at home
3 Days: Decompression & Routine
Establish a potty and exercise schedule
Set clear rules and boundaries
Introduce leash manners
Begin crate training
The first few days should focus on creating a structured environment. Crating (or leashing) your dog helps provide a safe space to observe and adjust to your home. Keep introductions minimal—avoid meeting other pets (except for parallel walks) and limit interactions with children and visitors.
Affection should be earned through calm behavior—your leadership and consistency will build trust and confidence. Ensure your dog is calm before engaging in activities like leaving the crate, exiting the house, or mealtimes.
3 Weeks: Training & Socialization
Begin basic obedience training (commands like “down,” “wait,” and “stay”)
Introduce people and dogs in controlled settings (avoid dog parks)
Prevent separation anxiety with structured alone time
Teach proper interactions with children
Now is the time to focus on training and structured socialization. Only introduce well-mannered dogs and people who respect your dog’s boundaries. Educate children on appropriate interactions before introductions. If your dog shows signs of stress, remove them from the situation immediately.
Continue to encourage independence by using the crate periodically while at home. Avoid constant following from room to room, as this can contribute to separation anxiety. Vary your departure routines and practice short absences to reinforce that leaving is normal. Provide enrichment toys like snuffle mats and puzzles to keep them occupied.
3 Months: Confidence & Freedom
Continue obedience training to strengthen communication
Gradually introduce privileges (bed, furniture, more freedom)
Take road trips and new adventures
Consider daycare or playdates in larger groups
By three months, your dog should feel secure in their new home. Maintain structure and practice training daily to reinforce your bond. Now is the time to introduce more freedoms—if you want them to sleep in bed or have more house access, go for it!
You can also start new experiences like road trips, daycare, or larger social outings. Always prioritize trust and control to ensure their success in new environments.
Patience, Consistency, and Leadership
Every dog adjusts at their own pace, but following the Rule of 3 will set your new companion up for long-term success. Stay patient, be consistent, and enjoy the journey of building a lifelong bond!
